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"After Jim saw the movie again in 1980, his only comment was: 'Just saw something I hadn't noticed before. There are no other women to speak of in the cast. Doris is so very much alone, which heightens the effect of the male world upon her. How many nice girls there are, and were, in this business that were just so afflicted - by the presence everywhere of intimidating males.'" - Cagney by John McCabe

"I had worked with Doris Day before, of course, in The West Point Story. But I really didn't get to know her then, and there certainly wasn't anything substantial for her to do in that picture. But when we started on Love Me or Leave Me, I saw something in her that I hadn't noticed before, or maybe it was just coming into bloom. I don't know. She had matured into a really exceptional actress, and I told her so. I said 'You know, girl, you have a quality that I've seen but twice before. There was a gal named Pauline Lord that created the title role in Eugene O'Neill's Anna Christie, and I'm also thinking of Laurette Taylor. Both these ladies could really get on there and do it with everything. They could take you apart playing a scene. Now, you're the third one.'" - Cagney by Cagney by James Cagney

“Anyone who ever worked with you knows you’re more than just an actor. You don’t play a character, you live the character. You breathe life into your own performance and make the rest of us look really good.” - Doris Day AFI Tribute to James Cagney


"She was up, she was honest, she was forthright — I could tell she was scared, but she got over it. She was brilliant in the movie she did with James Cagney, "Love Me or Leave Me." - Elaine Stritch on her Inspirations




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Charles Vidor

Joe Pasternak

Daniel Fuchs
Isobel  Lennart

Doris Day
James Cagney
Cameron Mitchell
Robert Keith
Tom Tully
Harry Bellaver
Richard Gaines
Peter Leeds
Claude Stroud
Audrey Young
John Harding


Irving Aaronson
Percy Faith
George Stoll
Robert Van Eps

Arthur E. Arling

Ralph E. Winters

MGM

June 10, 1955

122 Minutes

USA

English

$8,200,000

This movie changed the usual Good Girl Doris Image and brought her the most popular film of her career to that time. She played the life story of 20’s star Ruth Etting, and her co-star was James Cagney, this time in a lead dramatic role. Even today, critics say Doris should have had an Oscar. The soundtrack was the biggest selling album of 1955. “I’ll Never Stop Loving You” was nominated for an Oscar.

In 1920's Chicago, Ruth Etting wants to be a renowned singer, which is a far step away from her current work as a taxi dancer. Upon walking into the dance hall and seeing her, Chicago gangster Marty Snyder immediately falls for Ruth, and works toward being her lover, which he believes he can achieve by opening up singing opportunities for her.

Ruth is initially wary of Marty, but makes it clear that she is not interested in him in a romantic sense. Regardless, he does help her professionally, and through his opportunities, which are achieved through intimidation and fear, Ruth quickly gains a name as a singer, which she is able to do because of her talent and despite Marty's intimidation tactics. However, the greater her success, the more reliant she becomes on him. This becomes an issue in their relationship as she believes he can take her only so far before he becomes a liability.

All well and good, but Marty will never let her go that easily. The one person who tries to get Ruth away from her unhappy life with Marty is Johnny Alderman (Cameron Mitchell), the musical adviser Marty hires for Ruth at the first gig he got for her, and who also loves Ruth himself.

Love Me or Leave Me won the Academy Award for Best Writing, Motion Picture Story, and was nominated for Best Actor in a Leading Role (James Cagney), Best Music, Scoring of a Musical Picture, Best Music, Song (for Nicholas Brodzsky and Sammy Cahn for "I'll Never Stop Loving You"), Best Sound Recording (Wesley C. Miller) and Best Writing, Screenplay. Variety called the film "a rich canvas of the Roaring '20s, with gutsy and excellent performances."





Movie Quotes

Martin Snyder: (to Ruth) Now look here, you stupid liyyle broad, do you know who I am? Do you think I let dames talk to me that way?


Martin Snyder: (to Ruth when she visits him in jail) Tell 'em you seen me in the pokey and I looked great! Tell 'em I like it! Makes me feel like a kid again!

Ruth Etting: (confrontation with Marty) What's the matter Marty? Are you afraid you're losing your grip?




Songs

"I'm Sitting on Top of the World" - Performed by Claude Stroud

"It All Depends On You" - Performed by Doris Day

"You Made Me Love You (I Didn't Want to Do It)" - Performed by Doris Day

"Stay On the Right Side, Sister" - Performed by Doris Day

"Everybody Loves My Baby (but My Baby Don't Love Nobody but Me)" - Performed by Doris Day

"Mean to Me" - Performed by Doris Day

"Sam, the Old Accordion Man" - Performed by Doris Day

"Shaking the Blues Away" - Performed by Doris Day

"Ten Cents a Dance" - Performed by Doris Day

"I'll Never Stop Loving You" - Performed by Doris Day

"Never Look Back" - Performed by Doris Day

"At Sundown (Love Is Calling Me Home)" - Performed by Doris Day

"Love Me or Leave Me" - Performed by Doris Day

"Five Foot Two, Eyes of Blue (Has Anybody Seen My Girl?)" - Performed by Doris Day and chorus girls

"I Miss My Swiss (My Swiss Miss Misses Me)" - Performed by the chorus girls during rehearsal

"(What Can I Say) After I Say I'm Sorry?" - Performed by Doris Day

"I Cried for You" - Performed by Doris Day

"My Blue Heaven" - Performed by Doris Day


Trivia

From IMDB:

"This was the only time, after becoming a star in the 1930s, that James Cagney ever accepted second billing for a major role. He thought that Doris Day's character was more central to the film's plot, and so ceded top billing to her. "

"Jane Russell turned down the opportunity to play Ruth Etting in hopes of landing the role of Lillian Roth in I'll Cry Tomorrow. That role ended up going to Susan Hayward, leaving Russell with neither part. "

"According to Doris Day, most of the scene of a violent confrontation between James Cagney (Marty Snyder) and her did not appear in the final film because it would not pass the censors. After Etting is a triumph at the Ziegfeld Follies, Snyder comes to her hotel room to see her, and she tells him to get out of her life. As originally filmed, Cagney slammed her against a wall, savagely tore off her dress, and after a tempestuous struggle, he threw her onto a bed and raped her. "

"After this film was released, Doris Day was deluged with mail from fans attacking her, a Christian Scientist, for playing a lewd woman who smoked, drank, and wore scant costumes in the nightclub scenes. Day cared about everyone who was disturbed by her characterization, and she answered every piece of mail, explaining the necessity for realism, and that it was essential to separate actress Doris Day from character Ruth Etting. She felt that as a performer, she had the same responsibility to the public that a politician has to the electorate. "


From Cagney by John McCabe:

"A fascinating side note to Love Me Or Leave Me is Doris Day's marital situation at the time. Married to entrepreneur Marty Melcher, she had a long and ultimately catastrophic marriage. In her autobiography she cites 'the parallel, in some respects, between [the Gimp] Snyder and Marty Melcher... I hadn't realized at the time how much Ruth Etting and I had in common.' Jim said 'It was as if the picture was a prediction of Doris's own life. Snyder lived vicariously through Etting, as Melcher did through Doris.'"


From Doris Day: Sentimental Journey by Garry

"Doris was paid $150,000 for the film and a guaranteed ten percent of the gross after costs."





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  • Magic Blog
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    • Doris Day was more complicated, and more forward-thinking, than she ever got credit for
    • Lifelong friend, business partner remembers Hollywood legend Doris Day
    • Doris Day, America's box-office sweetheart of the '50s and '60s, is dead at 97
    • Legendary actress and singer Doris Day has died
    • How Doris Day’s Movie Roles Challenged Stereotypes
    • Doris Day 'Died Peacefully' Surrounded by Her 'Loved Ones,' Says Manager
    • Secret love’s no secret anymore
    • The Matchless Presence of Doris Day
    • Doris Day's death mourned in Carmel, where icon lived
    • Remembering Doris Day
    • Dream a little dream of Doris Day
    • Inside Doris Day's Final Birthday Party at Her Home Near Carmel-by-the-Sea: 'It Was Idyllic'
    • Hollywood Pays Tribute to Doris Day
    • Doris Day, Cincinnati's girl next door, dead at 97
    • RIP Doris Day
    • R.I.P. Doris Day Decades
    • TCM Remembers Doris Day
    • Doris Day mourned by celebrities following her death: 'She was the world’s sweetheart'
    • Pine Cone Tribute
    • Doris Day rejected Lifetime Achievement Award about six times
    • Hollywood Remembers Doris Day: Paul McCartney, Tony Bennett, Goldie Hawn Sing Icon’s PraisesPage
    • Paul McCartney Remembers Doris Day: ‘She Was a True Star’
    • Doris Day Appreciation: Why Did Oscar Elude A Shining Star Of So Many Talents?Link Page
    • Paul Batura: Doris Day’s life was more than ‘Que Sera, Sera’ -- Because our ultimate future is ours to see
    • A Hip Sex Goddess Disguised as the Girl Next Doore
    • In Memoriam
  • Happy Birthday Doris!
    • 2020 Doris Tribute
    • Doris Day's 97th Birthday Celebration
    • Doris Day's 96th Birthday
    • Doris Day 95th Birthday in Carmel
    • Doris Day 92nd Birthday in Carmel
    • Doris Day 91st Birthday in Carmel
    • 90th Birthday Celebration
  • Tributes to an American Icon
    • A Tribute
    • Beneath wholesome image, Doris Day was an actor of depth
    • Doris Day Changed Us Forever
    • Why Doris Day reigns as one of the great jazz singers
    • Lucky Me
    • 60th Anniversary of “It Happened to Jane”
    • A Letter to an American Icon
    • What Singers Can Learn from Doris Day
    • Meeting My Idol
    • Doris Paved the Way for Women through Her Roles
    • Uptown Pluck
    • Reel Revival Doris Day
    • Not the Girl Next Door: Doris Day Reconsidered
    • Blonde and Blameless: Why I Love Doris Day Movies
    • A Tribute to Alma Sophia Welz Kappelhoff Day
    • Celebrity Memories
    • No More Que Será Será: Give Day Her Due
    • Doris Day Photo Gallery
  • Doris and Pets (It's Her Passion)
  • Magic Store
  • Music - Early Years
    • The Peak Years for Doris Music and Hits
    • 1957 and Beyond
    • The Studio Albums
    • Top 100 Hit Single Records
    • Doris Day Jukebox
    • Some Rare Recordings >
      • Rare Recordings, Part Two
    • Doris and Les "Those Were the Good Old Days"
    • Sheet Music Covers
  • Movies
    • Doris Day Co-Stars
    • Romance on the High Seas
    • My Dream Is Yours
    • It's a Great Feeling
    • Young Man with a Horn
    • Tea for Two
    • The West Point Story
    • Storm Warning
    • Lullaby of Broadway
    • On Moonlight Bay
    • I'll See You in My Dreams
    • Starlift
    • The Winning Team
    • April in Paris
    • By the Light of the Silvery Moon
    • Calamity Jane
    • Lucky Me
    • Young at Heart
    • Love Me or Leave Me
    • The Man Who Knew Too Much
    • Julie
    • The Pajama Game
    • Teacher's Pet
    • The Tunnel of Love
    • It Happened to Jane
    • Pillow Talk
    • Please Don't Eat the Daisies
    • Midnight Lace
    • Lover Come Back
    • That Touch of Mink
    • Billy Rose's Jumbo
    • The Thrill of It All
    • Move Over Darling
    • Send Me No Flowers
    • Do Not Disturb
    • The Glass Bottom Boat
    • The Ballad of Josie
    • Caprice
    • Where Were You When the Lights Went Out
    • With Six You Get Eggroll
    • Top 20 Girls Next Door in Movies
    • Press Books
    • Movie Memorabilia
  • Radio
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    • Doris Day Show Season 1
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    • Doris Day Show Season 5
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    • Doris Day Specials
    • Doris Day's Best Friends
  • Interviews, Appearances on TV and Radio
    • 40's & 50's
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    • 70's
    • 80's
    • 90's
    • 2000's & 10's
    • Radio Calls on Doris' Birthday
  • Latest News
    • 4-Legger News
  • Awards
    • Doris Day rejected Lifetime Achievement Award about six times
  • Doris Day Fashion
    • Doris Day in Pillow Talk: Couture Allure
  • Doris in Carmel
    • DayDreamers
  • Doris through the Years
    • Cover Girl (Magazine Covers)
  • Quotes by and about Doris
  • Doris Talks to Her Fans (Fan Club Tapes)
    • Fans Talk To Doris
  • Who Knows What Might Have Been
    • Who Knows What Might Have Been, PART 2
  • Creative Video Collection
  • Doris Day Collector
  • And a few rounds of applause...
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